When I began one of my searches for a new addition to my fur family after losing a long-time wonderful friend, the first thing I considered was who would enjoy living with my family best and what characteristics should I look for when I chose that new member of the family. I didn't need to decide what type of pet I wanted, but that can be a consideration for many people. The one thing I knew was that I wanted to adopt. I had never had a pet whom I had purchased, but I do have lots of friends who want a specific dog or cat with known characteristics. I only wanted a dog who reached out to me to be his or hers.
My first trip to the animal shelter overwhelmed me so that I postponed my pursuits for quite some time. I wanted each and every one of the dogs to come home with me. There was one older black lab type of dog whom I still remember to this day - 15 years later. He actually spoke to me - not in words, but in my heart. I had discussed the new family member with my husband before I began my search. He had a few specifics which I agreed with, too. One, a dog. Two, a female. Three, a puppy so we would know that whatever she had experienced in her short life most likely would not have left strong memories with her. She would become a product of our influence not some unknown. The dog who spoke to me was a male and about 8 years old. I feel bad to this day that I left that beautiful creature there and hope he found someone wiser than I am.
That has been an experience which has influenced me from that time on. My next puppy was my wonderful Phaedra. She is approaching 7 now and I wouldn't trade her for anything. Nor, would I have ever wanted to miss having my baby girl, Zoe, come into our lives. Still, I have widened my views on choices. Taking into consideration the characteristics of a mixed breed dog (or cat) can be difficult if parentage is not easily discernible. I will not ever rule out an older dog, now. As a matter of fact, if I ever choose another dog, that dog will be a senior. The downside of this is that I may not have that dog as long as I hope to have one. Thinking about how short a time this "child" will be with me always makes me sad. But, there are no guarantees in life, are there? So, a senior dog will be the next characteristic I add to my list of desires.
There are some great ways to determine characteristics of certain breeds of dogs and cats. I have many books that give "general and typical" characteristics. I have also found several websites which list these characteristics. So if you are considering a new pet, here are some of the many places that might help you find a pet who will enjoy your lifestyle. And, with all of the homeless animals out there, if you want a purebred animal, please consider a breed specific rescue organization!
Dogs:
American Kennel Club
Dog Breed Profiles
To Mutt or Not to Mutt - The Pros and Cons of Purebred Dogs
Should I Get a Mix-Breed of Pure Breed?
Cats:
Cat Fanciers' Association, Inc.
Animal Hospitals - USA
Mixed Breed of Purebred :: Choosing A Cat Companion
Buying From A Reputable Rescuer - The Pros and Cons
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